At work, we’ve noticed this phenomenon that sometimes after seeing something too many times, you end up going ‘blind’. You don’t notice spelling or grammar mistakes after seeing it a few times since your brain has adapted to seeing it too many times and just adapts to the error and sees it as normal. This happens in life too. Sometimes we adapt to situations after … Continue reading Going Blind
This post is inspired by my friend Lamont. Thank you for curing my years-long writer’s block and inspiring me. It’s also dedicated to my Friend La Ferne, yes, that was me. Ok, I’ll write. 🙏 Also to Leila, who told me how something I wrote helped her. So here goes. There’s a situation that happened over the weekend that pissed me off. I’m not going … Continue reading 1 Month Reviews
To anyone who has ever asked for sign, this one’s for you. I saw my best friend and her beautiful baby yesterday. I hadn’t seen her in a month since we went to Cheesecake Factory for my bornday. We’ve both been busy. We usually notice things start to feel weird (a mild separation anxiety) at the 2 week mark because we were so used to … Continue reading Signs: Looking for them & receiving them
I heard something the other day when I was contemplating the mysteries of a situation I found myself in, or a situation that keeps finding me (whichever way you look at it/spin it-not really important.) “there are only 3 answers: yes, not yet & something better.” I found myself contemplating the deep mysteries of a simple question that I could no longer think straight after … Continue reading You already know
Once upon a time, there were two very different candidates. . . They were dueling it out with words and influence for the coveted job of President of the United States and in effect, the (free-ish) world. One seemed like a gentle and refined lady. Who was very smart, determined and independent. . . But some people didn’t see it that way. They saw some … Continue reading Orange is the new black, eh?