When the Holidays are Hard

If you asked me what my favourite holiday is, I’d tell you it’s Christmas. It’s something about the fact most people seem lighter.  It’s the one time of the year I see people kinder to one another; though it’s not year round, I’ll take it because it’s a start. I do love Christmas, I usually start listening to the Christmas Music on the radio station … Continue reading When the Holidays are Hard

Don’t be a dick/Walk with love

I don’t propose to be an expert in anything other napping, trying to figure out what my latest craving is and what to eat and trying to predict when my dog will crop dust me next so I can get away. That being said,  I’ve tried and tested life, the limits of myself and others by the fire of trial and error at times and … Continue reading Don’t be a dick/Walk with love

Vulnerability is the elephant in the room that sits on you, tickling fighting you, as you gasp for air.

For Chris, for always pushing me to write. It will never feel natural to have my secrets and thoughts open to everyone else instead of just you. But FINE!!! For Tracy, your vulnerability is what makes you beautiful and draws people to you, don’t worry about anything. For Janet, because I have always looked up to you, for the past 11 years. Sunny days ahead, … Continue reading Vulnerability is the elephant in the room that sits on you, tickling fighting you, as you gasp for air.

An Argument for Selfie Sticks & a lesson about handing your camera to a stranger

I can’t believe I am typing this, but I guess Selfie Sticks are kind of acceptable.  I try and fight the good fight against excessive vanity, vapidness and Kardashian whoreness that has influenced a whole generation of young people that make me worry what next is in store for society in the next half a decade or so. I finally saw the need for a … Continue reading An Argument for Selfie Sticks & a lesson about handing your camera to a stranger

Too Chilled out

My friend Jonelle posted this http://m.mic.com/articles/116112/there-s-something-chilly-in-the-dating-air-and-it-s-affecting-all-of-our-relationships on facebook with the hashtag #Moderndating. Though it is about  dating,  I see the ‘Chill,’  factor/attitude permeating into all aspects of life. Call me old fashioned,  but I liked it better when we cared enough to give a shit about something and/or knew what we wanted and weren’t afraid to voice it or go after it. Some people may … Continue reading Too Chilled out